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Margery Fine's avatar

I’m 77 and I endorse these principles!

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JohnPhil WoodsSom's avatar

Emma, Brilliant, great principles, gentle directions. I love this. One that works for me when I m depressed, anxious, fearing the end (Im 78) is to stop and start a gratitude list. What a rapid balancing force this is for me.

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

Thank you, John! I love gratitude lists. They help for depression but also boredom or overwhelm or any state of annoyance. I tend to always start my gratitude list with my socks! It's a gift to have comfortable, dry, cozy feet. And very presencing to start there.

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Julie's avatar

Emma! Even though we’ve never actually met, I can hear you in all of these comments. Thanks for being so fully yourself!

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

You're very welcome! I have tried to be other people and it doesn't work out! Thank you for being a brave leader in your community and for your readers.

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Papa Bear's avatar

Wish I could have organized my life's principles when I was 38, but Luke was the oldest of 3 at 5 yrs old so... I'll just take yours and run with it until you make revisions.

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

I'll let you know when there are updates I must make for us! Feels like 2025 is already throwing some... new ideas into the mix. Based on national and world events alone.

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JohnPhil WoodsSom's avatar

Brilliant Emma!!! I especially loved your comments on mental health and taking care of others. I cant wait to see you and Luke next month. Love, John

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

We are so excited!

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Kate's avatar

Brava. Thank you for this inspiration!

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

❤️❤️❤️🍁 thanks for reading, Kate! See you soon!

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JohnPhil WoodsSom's avatar

Love your writing abilities and your generous values shown in your work.

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

Thanks so much for reading, John! I love you.

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Laura D's avatar

So glad I read this, Emma. You are indeed wise “ beyond your years”. People are lucky to have you in their lives.

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

I’m so happy you read it too! It’s wonderful to have you out there receiving my writing.

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Karen Bovard's avatar

Lovely and useful. And, by the way, I’ve always admired the way you can access your ‘feral self’ without inflicting violence on other spirits.

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Emma Tattenbaum-Fine's avatar

That’s a beautiful compliment. I’m gonna think on that heading into some new collaborations.

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Katy McClellan's avatar

What wisdom!!!! Thank you for sharing it with us ✨✨✨The one that struck me most was on status. Reminded me of a quote by Zadie Smith "I think the hardest thing for anyone is accepting that other people are as real as you are." ♥️♥️♥️

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